" With everything that has ever happened to you, you can either feel sorry for yourself or treat what has happened as a gift. Everything is either an opportunity to grow or an obstacle to keep you from growing. And the amazing thing is, You get to choose " :)

 

Motivational Quote for the day

" IF YOU DONT SET GOALS FOR YOURSELF, YOU ARE DOOMED TO WORK TO ACHIEVE THE GOALS OF SOMEONE ELSE "
(Brain Tracy)

DONT QUIT

When things go wrong as they sometimes will

When the road your trudging seems all uphill

When the funds are low and the debts are high

And you want to smile but you have to sigh

When care is pressing you down a bit

Rest if you must, but don't you quit

Success is failure turned inside out

The silver tint of the clouds of doubt

And you can never tell how close you are

It may be near when it seems so far

So, stick to the fight when your hardest hit

Its when things go wrong that you must not quit

 

 

WHY WORRY

There are only two things to worry about:

Either you are well or you are sick.

If you are well, there's nothing to worry about.

But if you are sick,There are only two things to worry about:

Either you get well, or you die.

If you get well, there's nothing to worry about.

But if you die, there are only two things to worry about:

Either you will go to Heaven or Hell.

If you go to Heaven, there's nothing to worry about.

But if you go to Hell, You'll be so busy shaking hands with friends

You won't have time to worry.  :)

 

 

 

 

SELF ESTEEM
What is Self Esteem ?

Self esteem is the opinion you have of yourself. It is based on your attitude to the following:

Your value as a person
The job you do
Your achievements
How you think others see you
Your purpose in life
Your place in the world
Your potential for success
Your strengths and weaknesses
Your social status and how you relate to others
Your independence or ability to stand on your own feet

I think this sums it up but you may be able to add a few other important factors I have not included here.

What is Low Self Esteem?

Low self esteem results from you having a poor self image caused by your attitude to one or more of the above. Example: you do not value the job you do highly or you feel you have no purpose in your life.

What is High Self Esteem?

High self esteem is the opposite! It is a very important aspect of your life. If you have a high level you will be confident, happy and sure of yourself, without being arrogant. You would be highly motivated and have the right attitude to succeed.
Self esteem is therefore crucial to you and is a cornerstone of a positive attitude towards living.

Self Concept is an important factor in your self esteem

Self concept is how you see yourself and is important because how you act and communicate with others is connected closely with this. It is clear that to have a high level of self esteem you will need to have a positive self view and the opposite is also true. A negative self view will lower your self esteem because you will be focused on your failings and your insecurity will lead to a low level of self confidence.
Concept means idea so your self concept is the idea that you have about yourself. The way you see yourself, of course, may be completely different to how others see you. There are ways to improve this however. First though think about what you think of yourself right now and whether or not it is holding you back.

Questions to ask yourself

Are you happy with how you look?
Have you got an attractive personality?
Are you likeable?
Are you sociable or a bit shy?
Are you honest?
Are you a good person?
Are you able to communicate well?
Are you positive?
Are you fun to be with?
Are you decisive?
Do others respond to you positively?
Are you confident?
Do you live your values and according to your beliefs?

If you answer no to any of the above then focus on that question and ask yourself how you can change that no to a yes. Once you ask yourself the queation your mind will come up with the answers.This exercise will not only tell you what your present self concept is but how to improve it. It will help enormously in every area of your life if you can see yourself more positively.

REMEMBER: We have the answers to the questions within ourselves. We have everything inside of us to do what we need to do in life... When we ask for the answer and dig deep enough our brain will always come up with the answers to our problems.......WE MUST HOWEVER ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS...

 

 

"Motivational Quote Of The Day"

Your purpose explains what you are doing with your life. Your vision explains how you are living your purpose. Your goals enable you to realise your vision.

BY CHANGING YOUR THINKING

By changing your thinking, You change your beliefs;

When you change your beliefs, You change your expectations;

When you change your expections, You change your attitude;

When you change your attitude, You change your behaviour;

When you change your behaviour, You change your performance;

When you change your performance, You change your life.